Don’t love because you expect to be loved in return. You will end up in hurt for love is only beautiful when it is selfless.
Don’t buy gifts because you are expecting one in return. You may end up comparing the gifts you are given with that which you gave, instead of appreciating the efforts.
Don’t complement someone because you are expecting a complement. You may feel less confident in what your are wearing which will affect your mood for the rest of the day.
Don’t burden others with making you happy. You may become too dependent and less contributive in your relationship.
Remember to spend time loving than looking for ways to be loved. For such is the kind of love that comes with a reward.